Obstructions create safety

Obstructions create safety. Once we remove the obstructions from our minds that were imprinted by experience that the world is not safe to be who we are then we are open channels to the flow that is governing everything in  nature according to a very precise and exact geometry. Once we tune into the rhythm…

Good, Bad and Ugly about Porn

Porn is an incredible outlet for physical sexual energy. The fact that it’s so lucrative and so prevalent because it is in so much demand. Why? Because it meets the needs of those who think that this is the only way they can meet their desires. They  think it’s not available to them in 3D….

Unconditional Love

If I love you unconditionally and you have been abused or somehow felt that there is something wrong with you then you can accept yourself and you don’t think you deserve that unconditional love because you always think that they will find out your shortcomings and your unworthiness and they will leave you anyways, so…

Skills

we never know where inspiration comes from…I’ve been told for years to write.. mostly by my well-meaning friends who are sick and tired of listening to me talk.. a mile a minute.. my brain is a kaleidoscope mixed ideas and images of the past, future, present, real experiences mixed with dreams and movies, books, information…

Attachment theory: cutting edge neuroscience

Posted on February 11, 2016 by voices in the wilderness The opposite of masculine rape culture is masculine nurturance culture: men* increasing their capacity to nurture, and becoming whole. The Ghomeshi trial is back in the news, and it brings violent sexual assault back into people’s minds and daily conversations. Of course violence is wrong, even when the…

Our Bodies Change Our Minds

  When I first heard the expression ‘Be in your body’, I didn’t know what it meant, but the statement made me curious.  Like with so many concepts in life I’ve heard it before, it didn’t land or penetrate, as we only allow ideas to reach us deep inside when we are ready to respond…

The Number One Question To Ask Before Having Sex

  by susannabrisk • September 14, 2015 • Back in the dog days of the late nineteen eighties, when I started “dating,” I didn’t have many questions before jumping into bed. Granted it was another place, as well as another time, a more innocent time, but not totally innocent; before the Internet, but also after AIDS. It was…