Why Men Love New Pussy


As people we have to strive to understand the issues in society that make it tough on us and those that we love so that we can understand them.

It is easy to complain, and to argue around what just is not right.

It is harder to create solutions and offer them to people that we care about. If more of us did that we could ensure that our children and grand children have better lives.

My name is Montique Stephon and I am a Sexual Fitness Counselor and I have a beef with society.

There is a big problem with our society, namely that value is placed on the female sexual offering and not what males bring to the situation.

Where as women are taught that they should be more discriminating around who they share their sexuality with, males are not expected to discriminate at all.

Men are confronted by their peers for being less than men if they do not openly give their sexuality to any woman who would have it.

Know what it all boils down to?

It boils down one word : confidence.

As men we are not confident in our abilities, so we have to test it out on women to help us believe.

Yes.

You don`t believe you are good.

Deep down you do not believe it.

You are unsure.

You are concerned about your stamina, size, apperance, endurance, capacity to
please a woman.

So we are using women for check markers to assuage our fear, to tell us we are adequate.

Subconsciously, we are looking for approval for our sexual prowess.

Subconsciously, we are looking for approval of our manhood.

See the photo I used, do you see how pleased he is with himself that she valideted his
sexuality?

He is looking at her like, what do you thiink.

Not like, he knows that he is going to rock her world.

He requires her approval in order to feel adequate, once he sees her reaction, then….

then he feels like a man.

Most of us do it. Most of us just want to test our selves on her, drive her race track and
see how we fair. For our own knowledge, for our own self edification, BECAUSE WE ARE NOT SURE WE MATCH UP and we need to know if we are good.

We need to know that a woman feels us.

Think about it…

It is why we push in hard and violently we want to see you squeal, if it comes from pain
so be it.

Its why we pound them hard. We want to see you grit your teeth and try to run from us
but its no for the reason you think.

It is because it makes us feel like we are FORMIDABLE.

As men we don`t understand why we do this, why we smile when she is in pain.

Why dont we feel that is sadistic?

Why it feels good when you can`t fit, or it is too painful for her to continue.

It is because it rubs your ego, because it takes away your fear that she wouldnt feel
you, that you would be too small, that you would not have an impact.

We are looking for effect. We want to see our impact on you .

WE WANT TO BE RECOGNIZED and ACKNOWLEDGED because we feel invisible.

Sex with women is not intimacy, it is not affection, it is not a display of our appreciation ….

it is an attempt at self medicating a depression and lack of self worth.

And it explains why it is so difficult to stop this behavior, its a drug, we are addicted.

We feel we NEED IT.

It is essential to our identity as men.

But it is a parasitic co-dependent relationship that often leaves the women
in shambles.

They think we are in it for more reasons than we are, we are not truthful.

But it is because many of us do not know that we are with them just to do a self check.

It explains why we get tired of sex wiith one woman so quicly and why we move on.

Essentially the sex was more about us seeing if we still had it.

We become afraid again soon after and feel like we have to move on before our
skills decline with that woman and we get our feelings hurt.

This is the true explanation behind why men supposedly love new pussy and often believe they need multiple partners….

Yes.

Many of us want Fucking Approval because we are subconsciously Fucking Scared.

Literally fucking scared – scared about what folks think about our fucking.

This is the reason why we created Stroke Skills.

Because we have too much power in us to be acting out of inadequacy and fear.

Because we have to end this cycle.

Because we do not have any rights of passage teaching us about sexuality.

Because we do not have a means of deeply understanding our POWER sexually.

Because we can not live our lives using women as CRASH TEST DUMMIES

Because we have to KNOW that we are amazing at 360 degrees so that we
attract the success we deserve in our lives.

Yes it will allow us to be better lovers to our partners,
but first and foremost it is about confidence.

First and foremost it is about you knowing for sure that your abilities
HAVE VALUE.

When you value your input in bed, when you know that what you do is
amazing and that you are giving her something that can not be replicated
you have real power.

It is all inside of you.

You have an arsenal of skills you can choose from.

You know you will be able to give them such amazing feelings, taking combinations
for them , just for them, linking them together in a way custom made for their pleasure.

An experience that only you can deliver.

And then you really stop to think..

You start to wonder if that woman has made you feel motivated to add to her life experience with your Skills.

You start looking at yourself as a healer who uses intimacy to make people whole.

You look in the mirror and tell yourself :

“I am a unique and powerful sensual being who has the body, mind and intention to
enliven the women who attract me with energy that is healing to my soul.”

There is more in us than meets the eye and it should be that way.

Women should know that if they engage us with the appreciation, affection and adoration we have the strokes to pull the honey from their very core.

Recognize the power your have inside.
My name is Montique Stephon and I am a Sexual Fitness Counselor

 

 

 

 

 

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